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20 Aug 2009, Comments (2)

The Big Move

Author: ashley

Once Brandon and I found out that he would be attending George Mason University in Virginia, we started planning. We chose a moving company, decided on how we were getting there and even made a trip to Virginia to find an apartment. Every thing seemed to go smoothly until *duhn…duhn…DUHN!* the moving company decided they wanted to charge us $1,000 more than the quote. And they were so gentlemanly enough to tell us AFTER they packed half of our lives into their moving truck. So we so kindly (ahem) told them to bring our stuff back up and leave.

We had to think fast and decided to rent a moving truck, tow our car and drive across country to get us to our new home: Fairfax, Virginia. We (as in me, Brandon, his brother-in-law, nephew, Dad, MT, MT’s frat brothers and some of the EQ) packed up the moving truck and parked it at my in-laws. We stayed there at the Robison’s for about a week before we left on our journey.

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We left Las Vegas around 8am on Wednesday morning. We drove across Arizona, New Mexico, and Texas on the first day. We stopped in Texas so we could get sleep (only 3 hours) and showers. Then it was “On the Road Again” (I kept singing that song and let’s just say that it is banned from car rides for the rest of my life) through Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennessee and Virginia.

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We made it to Virginia around 1pm on Friday (took us about 36 hours altogether to get here). After we signed our paperwork and got our keys, we started to unpack. Brandon’s new friend from GMU offered up his assistance and he helped Brandon carry all the big stuff up to our new apartment. We unpacked mostly everything before we drove to D.C. to pick up my sister Shilo from Union Station (she came down from New York to help us unpack…I love her!) The next day all we did was unpack and put the house together. Shilo cut my hair and I dyed hers. On Sunday we went to our new ward and dropped Shilo back off to go home.

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This week we have finished unpacking, have been organizing the house, putting up artwork and looking for a job (for me). I have a couple of hopefuls but there is nothing for sure yet. We are slowly learning the area, or at least we are finding where all the Wal-Marts and movie theaters are. We have a neighbor that moved in the day after us and she is nice. We actually ran in to her today at the DMV.

Ah, the DMV. Out here their DMV is located in a mall. A MALL ladies and gentleman! Unfortunately, having it in a mall didn’t make the experience any less painful. It was filled with loads of rude people and employees who don’t know what it means to be “pleasant”. We should be getting new Virginia licenses in a week or so. I had to take my picture and the lame thing is that you can’t smile in your pictures….you have to “look natural”. And we all know that if I don’t smile in my pictures, I don’t look natural…I look awkward. So I might post my license picture if it comes out as funny as I think it will.

I will let you all know as soon as I get a job. We will be shooting a video of our new place and I will post that soon. Thanks for reading!

So I have wanted a new haircut for awhile now. I have enjoyed my long hair for long enough and I am ready for a change. What better time than now? I will be living in a new place, making new friends, working at a new job….shouldn’t I have a new hairstyle to go with it all? I think so! So here are some options.

I was originally inspired when I was watching the 81st annual Academy awards and saw Taraji Henson’s hair. It is absolutely amazing:

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So I started to look at other amazing short cuts like these:

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But I know that those might be to short for right now. So here are some medium ones that might make Brandon more happy :)

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Gotta love the Emo-style:

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Then, of course, there are my fashion idols Nichole Ritchie and Selena Gomez. Here are some pictures of their super adorable hair:

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SELENA GOMEZ AT WALT DISNEY WORLD IN FLORIDA

So as of right now I am torn. I am not sure what length I will go with, but I will be sure and post pictures once I have done it. Yay!

Is what I have turned into. Now that the moving truck is scheduled to pick up our stuff in a little over two weeks, I have been stressing out. Not about boxing up the house (because I have been slowly packing since June) but about finding people to rent our apartment, buy my car, and buy everything we are selling. None of these have been very easy.

We have been wanting to find friends to rent the apartment, because we want someone in here that we trust. But no one has been able to. So knowing that we might have some strangers in here, who could possibly ruin the house is a bit scary. I really hope we find someone soon…and hopefully that someone is clean and normal. Is that too much to ask??

As for the car, we have priced it at $4,000 even though the KBB price is around $5,000. No one has wanted to buy it though, and I guess we should have known that since the economy is really crappy right now. So we have been willing to negotiate, but people are asking for too low of a price. This car has been my favorite I have ever had. I got her at 35,000 miles and now, 5 years later, she is at 118,000. I drove her everywhere, including back and forth to my parents house in California. She has NEVER broken down on me, never had any internal damage from an accident and has never had a “check engine” light come on. In a nutshell, she is an amazing car. And everyone is telling me that Corollas will last at least 200,000 miles. So when someone asked to sell her for 2600, I had to pass. She is worth so much more than that. I hope we will find her a good owner soon that will pay the right amount for her. If not, I have no idea what we will do.

And this brings us to the last point: selling a bunch of crap that wont fit into our new apartment. We have 2 T.Vs, 2 T.V. stands, a black bookshelf, and a few other things. We have put them up on craigslist and told friends, but they are still in our house. Ugh.

So because of all of this I am stressing out. Oh, and did I mention that I don’t have a job yet? Yeah, we are going out there unemployed…kinda scary. I have certainly applied to different jobs but have been unsuccessful thus far. So life isn’t so easy right now, but I hope that when we get to Virginia, things will start working out. If not, I guess its top ramen and macaroni for us!

15 Apr 2009, Comments (3)

My new obsession

Author: ashley

Clothes. Since I am too poor to buy a bunch of clothes, I have become addicted to looking at them online and drooling over them in stores. I have decided that I needed to figure out what my “style” is. I have come up with a few celebrity icons which fit my style well. Now, before you go and find these celebrities in hideous clothes, take in to account that there are a few outfit choices that I would NOT wear. But for the most part, I adore their style: Nicole Richie, Lauren Conrad and Miley Cyrus.

I think my style is a mix of all these ladies. Here are some pictures to prove my point.

Nichole Ritchie:

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I especially LOVE how she can make a plain white shirt so absolutely adorable!

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Lauren Conrad (gotta love the moccasin boots!)

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Miley Cyrus

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The shoes below are too much, but maybe flats in that color would do….

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There are also some items that I totally need to have. Here is my list:

Gladiator Sandals (Miley wearing them in first picture)

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Peacock Feathers

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FLANNELS!!!!!

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See how Lauren rocks it….

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I heart these looks:

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And I need this jacket:

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My favorite website to look at clothes right now is modcloth.com and Forever 21. I love clothes.

5 Apr 2009, Comments (0)

Serverus Snape

Author: ashley

*ATTENTION: THIS BLOG CONTAINS SPOILERS ABOUT HARRY POTTER 1-7. DO NOT READ IF YOU DON’T WANT TO FIND OUT WHAT HAPPENS IN THE HARRY POTTER SERIES.*

SEVERUS SNAPE:THE GREATEST CHARACTER IN THE HARRY POTTER SERIES

This blog post is dedicated to Severus Snape, who, in my opinion, is the greatest character in J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter series.  There are few books that can actually suck you in and bring out emotions using only words. In my younger years, I would read Dean Koontz and I would feel fear and have dreams about some of the villains from the story coming to get me. As I grew older, I read less and less for pleasure. It was only school books and church books (not to say that wasn’t a pleasure reading them, but they were learning books, not ones that would take me out of the real world). After the Twilight phenomenon, I FINALLY got sucked into the craze. While reading them I laughed, cried, got nervous and had dreams about the characters. I soon realized what I had been missing all those years of not reading for pleasure.

After I finished the Twilight series, Brandon was reading Harry Potter and he wanted to watch the first 5 movies when he was finished. After watching the Harry Potter movies again in order, I wanted to read 6 and 7. From the very first movie, I had a special love for Severus. I wasn’t sure why but I just new that I liked him.

The books immediately sucked me into the the wizarding world. I remember one night being so sad that I could never experience Hogwarts or that I could never pull out my wand on anyone. A book that brings out those emotions in you shows the talent of the author and will go down as one of the best books I have ever read.

After finishing the 6th book, I was so distraught that I pretended to not believe that the valiant man I loved actually killed the magnificent Dumbledore. I tried everything not to believe it happened, then came to the conclusion that it was for a purpose, and it was not because Snape was evil.

Imagine my surprise when I finally found out that I was right. How could I have doubted my feelings! Of course Severus was good all along…I knew it from the moment I was first interested in his character. Anything bad that Snape was involved in didn’t matter to me. I brushed it aside because I knew in my heart that he was not evil.

I know everyone thought I was crazy because of my love of Snape, and especially after reading book six, I thought that everyone was against me for liking the man who killed Dumbledore. Come to find out they were probably glad that I never doubted him and couldn’t wait for me to read on and have my dream scenario come to play.

Severus Snape was the greatest character in this book because, besides Harry’s parents, I feel that he truly loved Harry and knew how important he was. No one else in the books were courageous enough to play both sides yet remain loyal to the “good side.” Snape had the bravery to actually stand at Voldemort’s side and give him whatever he needed of him.

One of my FAVORITE lines from Snape is when he said to Dumbledore “…you have been raising him like a pig for slaughter-” It truly showed how much Snape cared for Harry and how he wasn’t approving of the fact that he had to die and that Dumbledore knew it. No I don’t think Snape really loved all of Harry, since he was like his father who Snape despised, but his love for Lily was so immense and I think that some of that trickled down to Harry.

Even up until Snape’s dying breath, he was doing Dumbledore’s bidding and protecting the person he had been for the past 17 + years.  No one showed as much courage as Severus Snape. I wouldn’t have enjoyed the book as much as I did had it not have been this line from Harry (in the Epilogue)

“Albus Severus, you were named for two headmasters of Hogwarts. One of them was a Slytherin and he was probably the bravest man I ever knew”.

I am glad that Harry came to realize the importance of Severus and his fearlessness. Now, I am a little perturbed that Severus wasn’t his first name, but I will have to live with that.

So Severus was the greatest character in the series, followed by Sirus and Luna. I know you are probably thinking what about Harry, Ron and Hermione? Well, they made the book what it was, but without the help of the previous three people mentioned, their journey would have not been successful.

I heart The Half-Blood Prince. End of story.

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But here are my baby names. I do realize however that since it may be awhile before I pop out some kids, these names might change…reasons why? Someone in my family might use some of these names, therefore I cannot use them or the names might get too popular, and I can’t have a normal name for my kids.

Boys:

Wesley Thomas

Oliver Lawrence

Girls:

Lydia Kaye

Sophia Lien

Jayde Demaris (J.D. for short)

It’s the new year, so I figured I should blog.

2008 was a crazy year, and it was full of new adventures:

I got married

I graduated college

I started a “real” job

I got my first tattoo

I (we) remodeled our condo

I inherited a fat cat

Started a business

And I am sure there are more, but those are just the major events. All in all, 2008 was a fulfilling year that seemed almost magical??? (Don’t know if that is the right word but it will have to do). A lot of the major events in my life that I have dreamed about since I was a little girl, occurred during the past year. There is nothing I would have changed about my 2008.  Since meeting Brandon, he has taught me not to regret anything. I may have done things differently (like waited a few more months to get married so I wasn’t so stressed out with school and what not) but I definitely don’t regret anything.

When I talk to people about 2008 most of them complain about the economy or the weather, and  hope that 2009 will be better. I hope so too, but I am not too sure that things will change drastically in one year. I do have a few “goals” for the new year, and would like to share them with you:

1. Go on vacation to the east coast for a week or more

2. Read more books

3. Pay off debt

4. Get a raise

5. Brandon and I will move to D.C. and B will go to GMU (This is technically Brandon’s goal but I hope that it happens)

I have other small goals, but I am leaving 2009 pretty open. I am starting to learn to be okay with change and will be okay with whatever gets thrown my way in the next year.

I hope you all had a memorable 2008 and wish you all a HAPPY NEW YEAR full of good health and prosperity!

So… I have been thinking about writing this blog for some time now. I run across many things throughout my day that piss me off and that I would like to share with others.  But since that idea is pretty negative, I decided to add something else to it: Things that don’t piss me off (or in other words, things that make me happy).

Feel Free to add to my lists :)

So here is the first list:

THINGS THAT PISS ME OFF:

-People who drive in the “fast lane” but are being passed by semis going 65.

- Fans…mostly the ones of the “high” setting.

- Girls who crave attention…especially the ones who flirt with the opposite sex no matter what their (the guys) relationship status is.

- Smart people who think they are God’s gift to everyone and like to out you in front of everyone…or make faces to make you feel stupid whilst asking a legitimate question.

-Liars

-Drivers who get in the far right lane while coming up on a stoplight so that no one is in front of them, and then not turning when all of us behind him are.

- Lily in the mornings

- Bills

- People who call and ask “Is your mom there?”

- My cell phone

-People who reek of food…greasy, fried food

-Burnt popcorn

- People who say “yeah” in the middle of you telling them directions on how to do something. And they will never learn how to do it  because they can’t possibly hear what you are saying because of all the “yeahs” and “uh huh”s.

-When things fall on the floor

- Non-English speaking people going to physical therapy. This one isn’t because I am racist…it is because we could hurt them if they don’t understand what we am telling them.

- Bottles that are too tight to open

-Crowded WalMart..I guess its not so much WalMart but the people who go there.

THINGS THAT DON’T PISS ME OFF:

-Brandon (most of the time.. :) …)

-Watermelon

-Scalding hot showers

- Macaroni and Cheese

- New Zealand

- Big Brother

- Febreeze

- Backpacks

- Lotion

- Getting my hair cut/dyed

- LOL-ing

-Meditating

- Stupid jokes (what kind of a key DOESN’T Open doors?……a Monkey!)

- Saturdays

- Folding Laundry

- Organizing

- Taking Pictures

- Weddings

-Dancing

- My iPod

-Pillows

- Eating

- Spider Solitaire

-HGTV

- The Sun

- Rain

- Being tired/delirious

- Pajamas

- Good song endings (Phil Collins “Can’t Stop Loving You”)

- Serendipity

- Caramel Apples

- Lists

- Horses

- Fortune Cookies

- Disney Channel Shows

- Energy Drinks

I am sure there are more items, but I think that is a good start. Even though a lot of things/people piss me off, the good stuff I enjoy will always outweigh the bad.

So, I know there are a lot of people out there who hate reading mushy stuff about how happy someone is in a marriage. Well, good thing I am not writing this for them. This post is for those who like to see what I have been up to and to see if I am truly happy. It is also a selfish post so that I can write down all the wonderful things about being married and all the trials of working a full time job.

First things first: Marriage is hard. But it is not the hard that makes you want to quit, or makes you wish for the end to be near (like school), it is the kind of hard that when trials come up you must now try and get through them with another person. And that other person did not grow up as you did and may have different way to solve problems. It is diffucult to find middle grounds when both parties think they are right. But compromise is something Brandon and I have been practicing since we have been together. Case in point: I don’t like watching South Park…in fact, I HATE watching South Park. But I watch it with Brandon because I know he enjoys it and wants to share that enjoyment with me. And in turn Brandon will watch Big Brother with me and laugh at all the comments I make (as if the house guests could hear me).

Other hard issues that we had to get through were: getting insurance, finding a full time job with benefits,  getting my name changed and his name added to bills, consolidate credit cards, find time for each other and become adults. Luckily for me Brandon has been an adult for longer than I have so it was easier for me to jump into it with someone who knew what he was doing. And I think it is kinda fun to get cards in the mail with your new name on them.

So other than little road blocks that stress us out a little bit, marriage is everything I hoped it would be. Which is saying a lot since I have always been a hopeless romantic. I have not went through the list with Brandon that I am about to share with you. So if it is embarrassing, I hope he will be okay with it. So here it is, a list of things I love about Brandon:

Brandon knows I hate falling asleep with no one by my side, so he will bring his Nintendo DS and sit in bed with me and play it all night until he gets tired just so I don’t feel alone. (sometimes for HOURS)

If I am sleeping and he can’t, he will shine his insulin pump in my face, and when I wake up and look at him, he says: “Oh! You’re awake!!” (with a HUGE smile on his face)

He will always make me dinner when I am too tired to cook. (which has been a lot lately)

He always takes out the trash, and when he sees me doing it he makes me stop. (oh, shucks)

He is very clean and anal…two characteristics that I needed in a husband. (we are two neat freaks)

Always cleans out Lily’s cat box so that I don’t have to. (and believe me, it is not fun)

Likes watching movies with me (we have become somewhat obsessed with movies).

Makes the BEST curry in the whole wide world.

He works SO hard from early morning all the way until late at night. ( and NEVER complains about it)

He does an awesome job handling our finances and we should be able to have money when we retire.

Buy bags of Reeses and puts them in the freezer.

Does dishes when I don’t get to them.

Always wanting to teach me math, or share cool concepts that he learns each day (mostly coming from Atlas Shrugged)

He places 8 post its around that house that say “I love you”.

Always has me pick out his church clothes.

He texts me all day long, even if he is busy.

He will rub my back after a long day at work. (everyday)

So there are just a few reasons why I am so happy in my life right now. There is so much more that Brandon does to make me happy. I am so glad that we found each other and decided to get married for time and all eternity. I am so excited to have him me my eternal companion and to live happily ever after for… forever.

Okay, so now on to my new job. I am now working for Kelly Hawkins Physical Therapy on Charleston and Valley View. I work full time (9-6 M-F) and get benefits). I am a technician there and I put heat or cold pack on patients, do ultra sound or electric stimulation on problems areas and them massage them. It is a fun job because I get to meet so many different people and help them on their road to recovery. The comments I get from the patients are what gets me through the day. They are all so sweet and it makes my job easy. The only down side to this new job is that my body doesn’t seem to be keeping up with me. My RA is flaring up and it is getting harder and harder to wake up in the morning and get ready. I enjoy the days when Brandon is home because he can help me get ready. I haven’t a clue what else I can do to get better, but I hope to see my doctor again soon so that I can continue working at my job with no pain.

So there is my new update. My new job consumes my life and there isn’t much time for fun. But whenever we get a spare moment, Brandon and I make sure we spend time together, and thats how a marriage should be. I love my new job and I love being married. My life is going great right now and I hope it only gets better.

3 Aug 2008, Comments (0)

Sort It Out

Author: ashley

So, Brandon and I have started a new business called “Sort It Out”. It is a professional organizing business and we go to people’s houses and help them get organized. We are super excited about it, so if you or someone you know could benefit from our business, please visit our website at www.SortItOutVegas.com

Thanks!